Ten Reasons Some Single Christians Will NEVER Find a Spouse

Ten Reasons Some Single Christians Will NEVER Find a Spouse

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hey god bless you my friend this is sister sharon and today i want to give you 10 reasons why many believers who are very much interested in becoming married are having problems finding choosing a mate now i want to give you some things to look at we know that marriage is honorable it is something that is very um daunting marriage is not for the
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faint and heart marriage is for those that understand it is a lifelong covenant it is a lifelong vow to be monogamous with the person that you choose and in uh the society the modern culture we are in people are divorcing left and right i mean it is alarming it is disturbing but i do want to speak to those of you
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who desire to be married but i want you to be sober minded i want you to understand that there are many things that could work against you if you allow these ungodly mindsets to set in to your heart number one this can cause you to prolong finding the right person and making you know your your your choice your choice um
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and that is allowing parents and friends to influence your decision you will be under that covenant that vow with that individual not your mom or your dad or your best friend so number one is outside influences can cause you to prolong if not put off choosing a good man or woman for you number two is
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finance you have some people um who feel that if the person doesn't make a certain amount of money if they don't drive a certain kind of car live in a certain neighborhood if he or she is not established as you are friends listen i get it you want especially if you are a woman you want a man that can and will provide but when you have unrealistic goals especially if you are a person uh let's say female you are making 100k
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a year or 80 75 000 a year and the man you meet is only making 40 45 but he has a job it may not be your you know 80k or 200k or whatever you're making my friend but this man has a job and he's a hard working man friends you can mess it up mess it up you got to be prayerful and mindful that you have to examine that person
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by their integrity their love for jesus christ friends you have to look at the whole package number three when you are using physical looks to choose oh friends this is just so listen friends this this is something you definitely don't want to fall into when you say he or she has to have certain physical characteristics not only are you immature but friend do you not know
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that you can really mess yourself up when you place that much stock into what this person looks like now don't get me wrong we know that there you want there to be physical attraction we get it but friend when you say that he or she gotta have certain things you boxing yourself in and you can end up messing it up and you will end up a old maid or some old man where you just can't
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find nothing because you you're unrealistic okay about physical attraction okay and then you have some people who are very in uh secure with their own looks so they gravitate and they begin to look for certain outward uh characteristics physically because they feel so bad about their own so friends you don't want to put that type of emphasis on choosing a spouse
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by their physical prowess number four is false prophecies you have people who have received false prophecies from men and women telling them what their spouse look like he's gonna come from the north he's going to come from the south and you meet the man or woman of your dreams but they didn't come from the north and they didn't come from the south friend you have to be very very careful about receiving prophecy especially most of them are fake and false prophecies about who your mate is you have people
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that will tell someone your husband's going to be a man of god your wife is going to be a woman of god and no no no the she or he loves the lord but they are they may not be as fervent as you are in ministry but yet they are in ministry and they love jesus so you got to be very careful of prophecies because most of them are fake number five yep i said it fake f-a-k-e
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number five let me digress do you not know friends if you mess around and have somebody prophesy over you about something so serious the enemy could get a hold of you you have people that will even tell a person that they are going to be married to someone famous or a celebrity and this person is all tangled up trying to uh actually in their own mind marry a person that's already married
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oh sila that's a that's a a harmonious musical a greek word it means to pause and think oh because friends this is going on all right now we will move to number five education you have people who have unrealistic um they have unrealistic standards concerning education that if a person is not as educated as you might be if their
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mother or and father is not educated too if grandma on them ain't educated i mean you have people that are so messed up about marriage and their unrealistic goals as it relates to education friends you will end up a old maid i know a young lady and i i do not exaggerate her mother was such an influence over her that she would go through you know over the years all these different people
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good men but the standards from her mother especially in this area of education oh friends look you might have the college degree you may have this good solid job and she or he may have a blue collar job but they make good money they're good with handling their money but they don't have education friend think about it number six you have a bad
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b-a-d attitude you just got a bad attitude you know if you are constantly confessing christ friends we want to get better we don't want to get bitter we want to keep calibrating our lives and if you are 30 40 years old and you're still just moody you're demanding you're petty you're always nitpicking every little thing and every time you do meet someone that person has a hard time getting along
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with you because you are so as we would say set in your ways friends how you gonna desire to share your life and if you are a female to be a helper of a man when all you do is cut down every little bitty i mean you micromanage everything and everything bothers you oh sister you you're not gonna be able to get no man cause you got a bad attitude and let me help you sisters
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just because you got the beauty does not mean you can hold down a relationship because it takes more than the beauty and the booty to keep a bow ass oh yes a good man the bible women claim they want a boaz but you with that little attitude of yours think that your hip styles and your beautiful hair is going to keep him it doesn't work like that sister that's why you have lots of i've used them as an example you have
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a lot of women celebrities that many of us may know their names and their works but they cannot keep a husband because it's not about that sisters it is about integrity it's about are you willing to be a servant that's really what marriage is about serving more so for women to help that man to be a helper to be a help me and how you gonna do that if all you got is this little attitude and i'm so fine and i'm so
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established and i got it going on and you should be just lucky i'm in your life oh no no sister you're not going nowhere fast you ain't gonna get no ring you ain't gonna get no rain number seven is tradition when you allow tradition in the way mama and them did it and grandma on them did it well your husband or potential wife may not want to do things like that uh the way your family has been doing it and you have to be
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open to to really work with your your your soon to be spouse don't let tradition destroy your your spiritual position to say i do and to establish that covenant and vow and monogamy with a good man or a good woman based on grandma on them number eight is when friends you are having excuse me when you are
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entertaining the idea that you're too young well friends you have some people their parents will tell you you're too young they want to get married you love jesus you're trying to live right live clean live pure and holy you're 18. well let me help you my friend we know um scholars would tell you joseph and mary jesus parents they were young they were young they were probably 14 15 16.
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and what happens when you are constantly entertaining the idea that you're too young but yet you are masturbating you're fornicating you're having a constant sexual contact with your potential but yet you say we're too young to get married you're not too young to go to hell see see i rather encourage my children which i do find a wife
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but see now because we understand the strengthening of the teachings of jesus that your wife is going to be for life you can't allow your sexuality to guide you and push you into uh premature uh sexual behavior outside of marriage so you're not too young to get married friend you're too you're too young to keep having sexual uh uh intercourse with someone that's not your husband or wife i'ma leave that
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right there number nine your too deep friends you have people who are so spiritually deep especially as you get older and all everything is just spiritual everything everything you talk about everything you're i mean you're just don't get me wrong my friend it is awesome to speak the word of the lord to give god
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praise and honor but if you're constantly a little too on on that spiritual side and your spouse just wants to walk in the park you got to turn the whole walk into a sermon that's too much and that person you just scared them they like um she they you know what i'm saying i'm not gonna say no more on that i will just let that one simmer okay you too deep number no you just scared out you scored
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you know especially for a man you know he wants to know you could do more than speak in tongues sister he want to know that you could take care of his needs he wants to know that you could cook and clean that you really are able to handle the business of of marriage marriage is a partnership it's not rocket science and if you're gonna preach at him constantly sister come on now and some people do that because they're very insecure
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and they use spiritual semantics and outward um conversation constantly because deep in their hearts they're very insecure so friends just ponder that last but not least is premature sex if you are having sex with a man i'ma speak to my sisters and that man is really trying to live right and you are constantly pressuring him
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you're being sexual and provocative in your attire you're trying to seduce him and tease him and you say you the prophetess and every time you go on a date he see that he see them uh boobies he see that backside he see them thighs he see all this naked flesh now you and this man then slipped into the sheets and now he don't want to marry you because he knows that if he got it that easy somebody else can too
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and as the old adage says why buy the cow when you can get y'all know the rest all right and just for the youngins the milk for free why buy the cow he can get the milk for free enough said my brothers and sisters i love you keep us in prayer we are headed to detroit and flint michigan this weekend and toledo ohio to do
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outreach um i thank god for our team that's gonna meet us and those that's going down with me to these cities i love you please keep us in your prayers visit the ministry website so you can keep up with all the things that's going on as god is commissioning me to go from city to city inner city to spread hope keep us in your prayers friends let us all consider and ponder these things if you desire to be married don't
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fall into these mindsets and traps be wise be patient and wait wait on the lord and not in other words serve while you wait till next time because the harvest is plenty and the laborers are few god bless my friend till next time

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